BGR=boy gal relationship

went for youth today.was kinda packed.and da first thing i notice as i entered is majority wearing black.ofcourse i wore black too.ok..small matter..so da worship was cool.Un.philip Lee said da hymns very lullaby..akaka..so farny.."ngantuk"..so after worship,litle dat i know,there's a forum on BGR..and guess who's da members of the floor? the parents.so we kinda write our questions or wadeva we wanna know den pass to them so dat dey can answer..was interesting though.who came out wit this idea?..

i can't remember clearly what are their answers to our questions..but they answered mostly based on their experiences.

how do you know dat you're in love?
one uncle said..i know u are when u kept thinkin of dat person..and it's an undescribable feelin...
i wonder how it feels like..hmmph...

how do you know dat it's not just a puppy love?
last time when this gal and boy was close frens..and they tot they were not more than dat..finally when da gal got herself a bf..den da boy realise dat he loves her..
didn't really get an answer for this..but got an example.

how do you know dat he/she is the right one?
auntie:normally if there's an physical attraction..den i'll pray about it..and ask God fer guide...i haf plans to stay single when da 1st relationship din worked out..but i thank God dat He gave me uncle...but if tak jadi..stay single la..it's God's decision whether u haf a family or single..it's ok..
hmmph...single is good too...God's will...

when is da right time to have a serious relationship?
there's no right or wrong time...but always keep urslef pure...no carik pasal go those places where stuff will happened...just be careful who u chose to be with..one advise..avoid clubs...
meaning if u fall in love..it just happened? no control wadsoeva?
keep yourself pure coz the body is the temple of the holy spirit..don't do anything harmful to da body.

can a person like the older opposite sex? if yes..older by how many years?
can...7 years?
why 7? God's number?..can heh..nice....when it happened it just happened rite?

can Christians date non-christians?
don't play with fire...not advisable...instead of you trying to share gospel u might backslide...
ooo..i see i see...sigh..only christians then..mayb freethinker oso can...

can Christians date non-christians with no intention of gettin married?
huh? like dat means main main nia .....fer wad..get one..hold on to one..be loyal to one...give ur all to make it last...my opinion la..

hmmph..dats all fer todae...other Qs tak sempat answer.tomorrow open worship...syabas...~